How does your life change as you understand your sensations, which ones to pay attention to, and what signals can lead you to attract just the right person for you?
Imagine this scenario. On a lovely morning on one of the last warm days of summer, you are having breakfast on your sunny deck, squinting at the bright sunshine. As a cat bird squeals from the neighbor’s bush your partner reaches from his seat to you and gently strokes your hair loosely waving in the slight wind. As he is doing this he softly says, “I love you, it has been 10 years since I met you, and I celebrate each day I spend with you. Just looking at you and let alone our intimate connection is a pleasure which I can’t deny myself...”
Think it’s an impossible dream?
I thought so too. I had my share of bad relationships and unmanageable partner situations. Until I found this model which I use now and which enabled me to detect the approach of my partner the first time we met.
Interestingly, over time, particularly if this is not a priority, we get used to how we conduct ourselves in our relationships. Some behaviors become a habit, and we begin to overlook important symbols in our system, that compose our own language of signals calling to action.
Being single for ages, or stuck in an unfulfilling partnership, we adopt habits, behaviors and patterns of speech, voice manners, gestures, and time management that not necessarily achieve us what we want. Yet, once acted upon, we continue to use those patterns, despite our internal understanding that it is
NOT WHAT WE WANT.
This, by the way, can go on for years. One of my recent clients, let’s call her Maureen, an achieved financial advisor, divorced, at 54, is in a relationship with a man, a little her junior, a relationship, which she calls a “sex therapy”. They barely talk, or even see each other, but sex is good, and it justifies the last 7 years of their time together! He has 3 kids, and she has 2. They both diligently attend to their kids needs, some in college, some married with the kids of their own. When there is time Maureen and boyfriend spend time together, but it is mostly physical intimacy that drives them together.
Fiona, 43, is in a reverse situation. She doesn’t have a sexual relationship. She lives in her own apartment in a luxury high-rise in the city, and she sees Ronald, 56, who has his own place, at least on weekends, and another time for a dinner, or an opera together. Fiona and Ron take vacations together for the last 9 years. They are seen at friends houses for dinners, and they are traveling the world and spending time together as friends “without benefits”…
Then there is Jason, 49, who is in two simultaneously run relationships. With Lara he has a good time, sex play, and breakfast in bed; but Lara is married… So Jason also meets with Karen and they go to theaters, attend talks, and shop antiques on weekends.
Sonya, 45, is single for 6 years, after her second devastating divorce imprinting on her a fear of relationship. She is a busy executive, so she justifies evenings at the office by having much to do, what really comes down to just being afraid to face the dating scene again.
All of them, Sonya, Jason, Fiona and Maureen, and hundreds of others, ask me what to be looking for in determining their personal spiritual way of creating, attracting, and meeting their soulmate with whom they can feel at peace, whom they can trust with their inner world, and share their life.
So what is the reason we not satisfied in the relationships we already have?
When did this became just a habit?
How long can this go on without finding relief, satisfaction, ways to resolve?
You are already successful and have your life work set. You enjoy what you are doing with your time and legacy you are leaving for the next generation. Now you are having the next dream – a life partner, a soulmate.
So let’s talk soulmate.
Whether you are already with your soulmate and just need a little adjustment on how to have all that you want, or your soulmate is waiting for you just around the corner, and you need to get ready, how to get ready and where to actually go, all this and m ore is uncovered for you by your own connection with your soul wisdom. You can actually even see, and feel your soulmate in connection like this.
In the work that I do with my seekers, I lead you to that place where you have the deep spiritual connection that you desire, that brings you the kind of knowing that you trust and that motivates you to action. It’s this connection to wisdom, to your spirit guides that most of us want and often overlook. Yet once you are connected, it is easy to maintain this connection and once you know where to look, you can always choose to see.
At any given time in your life it is time to do something, one particular thing. Connecting with the knowing of what it is is an art.
How would your life change if you knew what to do, what to pay attention to, and how to be yourself so you attract just the right person for you?
Fill out the form on the right. Let’s figure out how finding your soulmate through your spiritual connection is for you.